I've come across a site where I had a clearer insight on
relationships. Love is really taking a risk. We give everything and I
mean everything in love. We give more time, effort, love whatever
because we thought that if we risk more, we end up with more. Just like
in gambling. Tataya tayo ng malaki kasi akala natin, tatama tayo ng
jackpot. That it will cover up every pain that we felt because in the
end, that person will see our worth and ultimately, LOVE us.
BUT,
most of the time, it doesn't end up that way. Lalo na kapag we're
betting on someone that clearly has nothing to offer. That's when we
fold. We fold to see the bigger picture, that there are already red
flags, that the person doesn't value our worth, or we just can't accept
the reality that they were good before but they are not now. But we
dont. We end up justifying the reasons why we stay with them. We end up
justifying and make excuses because of fear. The end point is, we settle
on the pain and thus, it becomes a cycle... And we get disappointed
every single time. Then, we ask ourselves why do these things happen
over and over.
-reposted. credits do not belong to me. ~
